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T1 – Self-awareness – EFT Tapping – Emotionally Focused Therapy Script.

Here is a combined EFT Tapping + Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) script focused on self-awareness, designed for practical use in sessions, workshops, or personal practice.


Self-awareness – EFT Tapping & Emotionally Focused Therapy Script

Step 1: Grounding & Awareness

Take a slow breath in……and gently exhale.

Bring your attention inward…

Ask yourself:
“What am I feeling right now?”

No judgment… just awareness.

Notice:

  • Thoughts
  • Emotions
  • Body sensations

Simply observe.


Step 2: EFT Setup Statement (Karate Chop Point)

Tap gently on the karate chop point (side of the hand):

Repeat 3 times:

“Even though I feel [insert emotion: confused, overwhelmed, anxious],
I deeply and completely accept myself.”

“Even though I struggle to understand my thoughts and emotions,
I am open to becoming more aware.”

“Even though part of me feels stuck or uncertain,
I choose to understand myself with compassion.”


Step 3: EFT Tapping Sequence (Round 1 – Acknowledging)

Tap 5–7 times on each point:

Eyebrow (EB):
“I feel this emotion…”

Side of Eye (SE):
“I’m noticing what’s going on inside me…”

Under Eye (UE):
“This feeling in my body…”

Under Nose (UN):
“These thoughts I keep having…”

Chin (CH):
“I’m becoming aware of my patterns…”

Collarbone (CB):
“Maybe I’ve been ignoring this…”

Under Arm (UA):
“It’s safe to notice what I feel…”

Top of Head (TH):
“I am observing myself without judgment…”


Step 4: Emotionally Focused Therapy (Deepening Awareness)

Pause tapping… place a hand on your chest.

Ask gently:

  • What am I really feeling underneath this?
  • What do I need right now?
  • What is this emotion trying to tell me?

Allow the answer to arise naturally…

No forcing… just listening.


Step 5: EFT Tapping (Round 2 – Understanding & Acceptance)

EB:
“I’m starting to understand myself…”

SE:
“These feelings make sense…”

UE:
“I’ve been trying to protect myself…”

UN:
“I can be kind to myself…”

CH:
“I accept what I feel…”

CB:
“I am learning from my emotions…”

UA:
“My awareness is growing…”

TH:
“I am safe to know myself deeply…”


Step 6: EFT Tapping (Round 3 – Empowerment & Rewiring)

EB:
“I choose awareness…”

SE:
“I choose clarity…”

UE:
“I understand my thoughts and emotions…”

UN:
“I respond instead of react…”

CH:
“I am in control of my choices…”

CB:
“I trust myself…”

UA:
“I am growing every day…”

TH:
“I am becoming more self-aware and empowered…”


Step 7: Integration

Take a deep breath…

Notice:

  • How your body feels
  • Your emotional state
  • Your clarity

Say to yourself:

“I am aware. I am present. I am in control.”

BIG Life Questions that Trigger Reflection and Opened the Door to Self-awareness

Questions That Change How You See Yourself


IDENTITY & SELF

  • Who am I… beyond my roles and responsibilities?
  • What parts of myself do I hide from others?
  • Am I being my true self—or who I think I should be?
  • What am I pretending not to know about myself?

THOUGHTS & MINDSET

  • What thoughts do I repeat daily?
  • Are these thoughts helping me—or limiting me?
  • Where did these beliefs come from?
  • If I questioned my thinking, what might I discover?

EMOTIONS & INNER WORLD

  • What am I really feeling right now?
  • What emotion do I avoid the most?
  • What is this feeling trying to teach me?
  • When do I feel most overwhelmed—and why?

PATTERNS & BEHAVIOUR

  • What patterns keep repeating in my life?
  • Where am I stuck—and what am I not seeing?
  • What habits are shaping my current reality?
  • What am I doing that I know is not serving me?

SELF-HONESTY & AWARENESS

  • Where am I not being honest with myself?
  • What am I avoiding facing?
  • What truth about myself am I afraid to accept?
  • What would change if I became fully aware of myself?

RELATIONSHIPS

  • How do I show up in my relationships?
  • Do I react—or respond?
  • What do my relationships reveal about me?
  • Am I communicating clearly—or emotionally reacting?

FEAR & LIMITING BELIEFS

  • What am I afraid of—and why?
  • What belief is holding me back the most?
  • Is this belief true—or just familiar?
  • What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?

GROWTH & CHANGE

  • What part of me is ready to grow?
  • What do I need to let go of to move forward?
  • What is life trying to teach me right now?
  • What would growth look like for me today?

PURPOSE & DIRECTION

  • What gives my life meaning?
  • What kind of person do I want to become?
  • Am I living in alignment with my values?
  • What truly matters to me?

THE DEEPEST QUESTIONS

  • If I fully understood myself… what would change?
  • What would my life look like if I lived consciously?
  • Who am I becoming through my current choices?
  • What is one truth I am ready to face today?

FINAL REFLECTION

“The quality of your life is shaped by the quality of the questions you are willing to ask yourself.”

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